Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Dating

Bismi-llahi ar-rahmani ar-rahimi, In the name of God, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. And I beg for forgiveness from Allah for whatever sin that I have done in the past and to show me the right path. Ameen.

Assalamualaikum / Greetings dear readers.

The reply to "mas" at the tagboard. Jazakallah and thank you for your question.

There are several restrictions.

1) For basic knowledge, it is forbidden for a man to gaze at a women non-accidentally. meaning, an accidental look is forgiven by Allah. but not the next second when he continues looking.

2) To go out on a date with only the male and female, it is haraam in Islam. The reason is, the third person is the Shaiytan. He is between the male and female and will be whispering to do evil sins that will arouse sexual feelings in the couple.

3) As a solution, it is permissible to go out as a group. Group here best fits FAMILY. for this outing, the couple will be more defensive against the shaiytan because their families will give them the support and barrier if any evil thoughts creep into their minds.

There is much more to this, but all knowledge come from Allah and I have not attained enough at this stage. What i am doing is just sharing whatever knowledge i have to benefit myself as much as others insya'Allah. Feel free to contact me and add on to any posts insya'Allah.


If there's any error, I'm open for rectification. None is perfect as perfection only belongs to Allah (God Almighty). All good things come from Allah and all the bad things are from my side and the side of Shaiytan the accursed.

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